Taking a slight diversion from strictly “weddings” to encompass all events scheduled around the Christmas holidays – here is the same secret: keep it lovingly manageable so you can enjoy your own celebration! Traditions and rituals converge but you don’t have to do them all, just the ones that have meaning for you. And, create your own customs that will be “traditions in the making”. More is not always better; do not fall into the perfection trap. “Perfection is a goal that brings with it only two certainties: it can never be attained and it will throw you into the depths of frustration and exhaustion” and over-budget!! Focus on the meaningful. Do less. Enjoy more. Celebrate in your own wonderful way with people you love… and you’ll have the time of your lives! CHEERS!